All about being yourself....

Sometimes it s better to remain ignorant...

Sometimes its better not to grow up...

Sometimes its better not to analyse situations....

Sometimes it feels so much more better to remain yourselves....

Most importantly, it is such a great feeling to live life your way!!!!

From almost childhood, we are taught what we should do to keep others happy...

But we always forget  about our happiness and what we want from life...

This might be the precise reason why, we grow up trying to please others...

And in the process ‘mask’ our identity!!

The big question is till when will we be fake?

For some people the answer might be simple and easy- ‘Throughout’!!!!!

For the rest, they might not even remember their true selves and wonder what am talking about..

Life can get really complicated sometimes.... and many must have experienced the same...

But somewhere down the line.... if one gives it a thought... we may realise that ‘We’ as individuals have complicated our life....

Things can be so much more simpler if we start listening to ourselves first... and keep ourselves happy.

When times get ruff, and you are in a tough!!

Just stop thinking too much.....and ask that little voice in your head to SHUT UP!!!

Take it easy.....

That Is Just Me!

Pandoras Box

Rare are the moments when we don’t have complaints. Either with ourselves, our neighbors, Family, friends …. The list goes on and on...
There comes a point when we begin to believe that it is just ‘ME’ and no one else in this whole wide world with a big issue/problem...
 It has indeed become a rare sight today to see people happy from their heart and soul.... On the outside…. We make our best possible attempt to convince the world, more than ourselves that we are satisfied and happy indeed...
Some may have a whiny spouse, cribbing child or an annoying neighborhood, while some sit all day and critique themselves on aspects of live, happiness, satisfaction, achievement and most importantly Failure!!!!!!!
We get affected by the pettiest issues…… and consider it to be the biggest of all….. The way people are giving in to life and quit so easily, really makes me think about many  things…

Is this called patience, is this called fighting back?
For those who think they have tried their best, or given enough chances to life or for the situations to change….. And for those who curse Pandora to have ever opened the box of troubles……. I would like to invite you all to re think and always look at the bigger picture!!!

If you are cribbing about how hot or cold it is, or how u hate the place u live in (by choice), then think about the soldiers in Army Navy and Air force. Think about the situations they get to live in, in extreme climatic conditions, with only one aim- to safeguard their country and its people, so that ‘WE- the one’s who complain all day’ can sleep in peace.
If you are complaining about how each part of your body hurts, think about the differently abled and crippled, who wake up every morning with the zeal to live life as normally as possible…..
If you are complaining about your family and friends and how you don’t get along with any of them, think about the homeless, orphans and old age homes, who have no family of their own!!
Though at the end of the day they form their own family and give life a new meaning…..

Why have we all narrowed down our vision so much, that we almost see only our selves and no one else. Why cant we acknowledge the blind who also try to cross the road along with us, while we cross the road;  almost blindly preoccupied by our thoughts?
Why don’t we see that if we consider ourselves as middle class or not with a great standard of living, there are people who live their entire life on the roads. On the contrary if we are among the creme of the creme, there are definitely people who are richer than us. So whats the point in just showing off to the world about your status and money, while you don’t have the heart to help the one’s who need it!

The day we do start seeing the bigger picture….. is when we will pursue Happiness and peace of mind!

In the Pursuit of Happiness.......
That is Just Me!!!

FAMILY!!!

Miss your presence, miss your talks, miss ur annoying interrogation over other peoples’ lives…
Miss ur hands that were always up, to bless me… miss ur warm wishes….
Miss all ur motivation …… miss u taking the update from me of my complete day!!!!
Who ever said that every gal is a daddy’s daughter and he is her favorite!!!! Is so true….
Now that I am leading my new life…. Is when I realize… how important all ur annoying questions were…
Each question that u wud ask… wud teach me a new thing for the day!!!
Now that I am here… I realize how nice it feels when someone asks u what u did all day and what new u learnt in the day….
Now that I am here and leading a new life, I realize how important each and every member of the family is…
Now is when I realize why mom used to emphasize on the fact that we all should have our meal together… I understand how important each meal that we had together was!
Now that I am away I realize what it was that kept us bonded as a family!!
Now is when I realized what an important role u both played in order to balance our lives…
U both knew when exactly to be parents and when exactly to be good friends with your daughters!!
Now is when I realize what exactly FAMILY means!!!
Whether it is irritating my little sister or advising her, whether it is sharing my experiences with you all or asking you for suggestions….. I realize that even before I could ask for anything we all did really understand what was going thru each of our minds!!!!
F- ather A-nd M-other I L-ove Y-ou!!!!!!
Love u Mom Dad and my Lil sis!!!!

Now that is what I call a FAMILY!!!!

That is Just Me!!!

YOU behind the mask!!

Life takes you through different phases in order to teach you many lessons…
At one point you reach such a stage; where you need to lead two different lives..
One that you are expected to and one that you want to lead….
In the beginning the difference is distinct and clear.. but with time… this difference becomes hazy……
You push yourself to be what you are expected to be… but how long can one hold themselves back??
At any given point of time…. We all have two distinct identities within us….
There is a ‘YOU’ behind all the masks that you wear … those masks that you put on so you can make everyone else around you smile… those masks that define you as a person in the ‘OUTSIDE WORLD’…
But why do we forget with time that there were few other aspirations and few other dreams that we as an individual had at some point in life….
Don’t ever let the masks mask “YOU”…..
Shred the masks, pull out the curtains and bring ‘YOU’ to the fore!!!

Dream Aspire Achieve!!!

ME to the fore!!!!

That is Just Me!!!!